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Buy a one way ticket to Turkey.
Turkey is worse off compared to 20 years ago, that is for certain. But yet many institutions of the secular Republic that Mustafa Kemal created still stand strong. Remember around 50% of the Turkish people voted against Islamists even in last election despite all mass media being controlled by them.
Good thing Saudi Arabia is 2,000 years behind.
What will i do after i get there?. I will have to leave college behind and i spent 3 years studying.
Ask your university for a transcript for all your semesters. I live in turkey (Istanbul) feel free to PM me for anything!! Best of luck to you and stay safe man!
since you are fluent in arabic and english there are plenty of job opportunities in istanbul due to large influx of gulf people coming here. healthcare, real estate, tourism services even IT jobs that require arabic skills are available.
Thanks. I dont have enoguh money to fly there and i'm concerned about my education since i dont know Turkish. but i will keep that in mind.
Bette than being dead my friend.
What will i do after i get there.
People don’t just tell him to fly somewhere help him with details
You can seek asylum in Canada as a refugee. You would need to prove that you face prosecution as an a apostate from Islam.
How can i prove that?
I recommend that you keep a record of all threats and retaliations, legal or illegal, that exmuslims can receive or would receive in your country, as well as documentation of your own apostasy from Islam. These documents should be hidden from those in your country who would use the documents as evidence that you are an apostate.
But by having these documents, you would be able to confidently present an accurate account of your apostasy and the threats that you face in your home country.
For best results in Canada, you should try to get in touch with an immigration lawyer - some work for free or for reduced fees in order to help refugees. If you want more details, feel free to PM me.
I PMed you.
Religion of peace.
Hey I'm an Ex-Muslim Sudanese woman. I believe that the organization Ex-Muslim of North America has a fund to donate to Ex-Muslims in trouble. So I suggest looking into that ASAP. When I visited Sudan I made sure not to speak of my apostasy to anyone except 2 women who I trusted because they were very open minded. It's dangerous. I suggest going to Egypt, it's cheap and you may be able to find a job there. Egypt is easy to get to from Sudan. Stay strong and good luck.
If you can not go to a different country or find no way out, definitely pretend to be a Muslim, say you repented or was not thinking straight or whatever you can do to persuade them. It is not worth your life! You will always be who you are inside no matter your act. You can then safely find ways to leave the country, perhaps even to finish college and find a job elsewhere.
That's the logical thing to do, but my family will report me either way since i told them i will pretend and repent if they ever report me to the authorities. I can still bow and lower my self and try to apologize and ask them not to report me and return to being a devout muslim who prays five times a day, but i doubt i have the mental stamina last long. I know i will trip again and that would be my end.
Something i'm afraid of is getting lashed or something worse for insulting Allah and Mo infront of my siblings ( i called Allah unmerciful and Mo a lustful warlord) my siblings and my mother will have no problem testifying against me.
It's not easy going back home, dad kicked me out smugly thinking i will apologize and kiss his boots i told him it didn't matter and that i was planning on leaving on my own accord, if i go back i will be treated as a sub-human who have no right to say/voice anything and they will monitor everything i do or read and they can always threaten to report me to the police if i get out of line.
I know i should go back to pretending but it's not that easily done.
That sucks man.
Insulting Mo is punishable by death and is "un-repentable" BUT good news is that Muslims rarely ever implement the punishment. So you're probably safe on this specific account.
My advice? Do not face the herd alone. Nobody can stand to a herd of poisoned monsters. Pretend to repent. It's never too late. Live under cover until you can run away from that 14th century backward society.
Like what others on here said seek assylm and contact exmuslims of North America. Although in my opinion you really screwed yourself over. Especially since you told your parents you planned to "repenting" sheesh man you didn't think they could use that against you? Anyways I hope you can make it out and travel to a safer country asap
No. I didn't think my parents will report me and i never thought my siblings would be ready to testify against me. I agree that i was careless and thoughtless and brought it on my-self but i came out gradually and i thought i was winning. My mom accepted that i was no longer praying and said she wont ask me to pray,my dad said he will five me as much time as i need and wont dicuss anything with me unless i was ready to discuss. But all that rurned to be lies to keep me from leaving home. The day my father arrived their attitudes changed and they lost their patience. It's being nearly a day and i haven't received a call from them to check if was safe or whether i have a place to stay.
Well you can never be too careful but anyways what's done is done. What plans do you have now? Chances are they have some proof against you considering how they switched up. I'd suggest leaving and trying to find away out the country. Try to seek asylum in places like Canada. Keep us updated pls cuz this is a scary situation
Hey how are you holding up? Did you manage to contact anyone for help and what has happened so far?
OP, I hope you are okay.
I know i shouldn't have let it get this far,i know i should have pretended to be a good muzzie till i was financially independent and had a chance to leave
It's not too late. Try to ask your father to forgive you. Say that you have been suffering from "mental issues/illness." Get some "help" for your mental issues, and pretend to be a devout muslim again. Make peace with your family.
As you said, when you're financially independent, you can then leave everything behind and start a new life.
Good luck, friend.
Thanks for your advice.
So sorry to hear of your situation man, I've heard Sudan is a pretty hellish and intolerant place so I am sorry you're stuck there with a family who won't accept that your thinking differs from theirs. My suggestion would be, as a stop-gap to finally going to a Western country under an asylum status, you should first try getting to an African country that is relatively stable & tolerant (Ethiopia, Ghana or Tanzania perhaps?). From there, you would be able to live freely, find some or the other work to do (most likely menial labor) and coordinate a move to a more permanent location.
Edit: I'd like to get an idea of how much it might cost you to get somewhere safe and how you'd go about doing it. I'd like to see what if anything we can do anything to help in that process!
holy fuck dude. this is some third world country sheit. get out of there escape to morocco.
there is no death penalty in morocco
I feel you. morocco is close to spain/europe. in turkey you still have islamic countries behind you. but moroccan neighbour countries are good too. tunisia is trying to get gay marriage legal. they already made it legal for a non muslim to marry a muslim in tunisia. algeria is safe too.
but do what you must!. please tell us if you escaped
Thanks. I will make sure to keep you posted :).