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Felt the same till I was 25 when I met the right guy that I wanted to have a relationship with. Otherwise it was just jerking and sucking with friends.
Problem is I am in a relationship, and have been almost a year. I really wanna explore my sexuality, but also don't wanna cheat or break up
also don't wanna cheat or break up
I have a gay friend, he let me explore my sexuality a little more. I sucked his dick and swallowed and I loved it and I got rock hard, but when he sucked mine I didn't feel so turned on
I can see that the timeline seems confusing... The dick thing happened around oktober/November last year, and my girlfriend and I started dating in December. So when I say I recently started doubting,I mean this past year
I always thought I was a “heteroromatic bisexual” until I met my ex (boyfriend) I had such a great connection with him and things just felt so right. After our relationship ended I did a lot of soul searching and thinking about myself and I realized I was living in denial and I am gay. Obviously this might not be the case for you, you could definitely be a “heteroromantic bisexual” where you only enjoy sex with men and have a romantic and sexual attraction to women. If you’re happy in your relationship I guess your best option would be to talk about these feelings with your girlfriend and see if maybe you she would be okay with you experimenting. You don’t even necessarily need to experiment with other men maybe toys or something. If it’s something you really want to try and you don’t want to cheat it’s something you need to talk about with your girlfriend. Good luck on your journey to discovering your sexuality.
Didn't even know there was a kind of "inbetween" called hetororomanic bisexual. So thanks! My girlfriend and I have already experimented with anal play(on her request actually). She would use toys in my butt, but I just didn't really enjoy it that much. Don't know if it was because it was a bad day for me to anal,because it kind of hurt. And I just lost the mood. But maybe I should just wait a little and see, and if I feel the same in a couple of months I can talk to her about it. And thanks for the great advice
No problem, I’m glad I could help. Don’t worry too much about labels when figuring out your sexuality just do what feels right to you. I hope you get everything figured out, good luck!
If you aren’t turned on, anal play will be awful. You probably aren’t turned on by here in that way.